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29 July 14

Anonymous said: well u are fighting for black rights but if you were dating an asian guy that means you think asian guys are better than black men, you hypocrite. fuck you, it's girls like you that make black men hate the rest of us black women

newshadeofbrown:

lovelyandbrown:

shewhosinlove:

ebonybyg:

Are you for real?

1. I would actually prefer to date within my race but right now I live in Vancouver which is 51% Asian, and 0.9% Black, the only Black guys I know are family friends or they’re not interested. stop jumping to shit conclusions felicia.

2. If you really think I’m making Black men hate us, you’re confused. Black men as a whole don’t hate us and especially not for dating interracially. If a Black man hates Black women that’s their problem not mine.

3. Get your nasty lameass out of my inbox and move along

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You’re so stupid that I’m actually getting off anon and made another blog just so you know how stupid you are. So what if your city is mostly Asian, GO LOOK FOR A BLACK GUY, move or something! That’s a bad excuse and you know it.

You are a joke, and it’s sad, all the black tumblr bloggers would agree with me, look at lovelyandbrown she is married to a Black man AND she’s bringing the Black community together by doing that.  Black men are dissing black women because of girls like YOU. Don’t act like it’s Black mens fault for not liking you. If you are pro black then date a black man and stop trying to grow your hair so long instead of instead in an afro. Black men hating us is YOUR problem! Dark skin black women that date outside their race are self hate, and self hate is the main reason for separation in our race.

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UHMM. HOLY SHIT.

HOW THE FUCKKKKKKK DID MY BLACK ASS GET DRAGGED INTO THIS?!?!????!

  1. I’d just like the record to reflect that I am not married. No shade to my wonderful boyfriend, but hey.
  2. I seriously doubt that my little relationship is bringing the black community together by dating someone I love. I’m not Bey and he ain’t Hov. That’s very kind, but that is a STRETCH like a MOTHERFUCKER and I simply cannot allow it. That sounds so ridiculous. Like…I am cringing. Just NO.
  3. Also, I don’t date who I date to bring the black community together. That’s weird. 
  4. All that aside - you SERIOUSLY cannot be attacking her because she is dating an asian man. That is so. Ridiculous. I am HORRIFIED.
  5. You can fight for black rights and date an asian. You can fight for black rights and date a white person. You can fight for black whites and be WHITE. Like. Our struggle is NOT exclusive to the black community solely. And if it was, OH SHIT. We’d be struggling forever in the state of things now. 
  6. Black men hate black women because they date outside the race? You do know that black men marry outside the race about about 25% to a black woman’s 9%? that’s 1/4 compared to less than 1/10. So, even if we were in a mathematical vacuum, if a black woman wanted to be married, she’d HAVE to date outside her race.
  7. In regards to location, in a VERY white city like Vancouver, her statistics are accurate. With a low population and with 25% of those men ALREADY going to date outside of their race….how many men are there left for her? Her cousins and shit? You want her to be a kissing cousin?
  8. You sound so fucking ridiculous saying that she should just MOVE to find a black man. What if she has a job in Vancouver? A family? Should she cross the US/Canadian border just to chase sone chocolate? Or, maybe she actually LOVES this asian man! Maybe he fulfills her and gives her what she needs and loves her. PERHAPS, SIS. PERHAPS.
  9. As far as her hair growing down and not out into an afro….WHAT? THE FUCKKKKKK!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!?!!
  10. DARK SKIN WOMEN WHO DATE OUTSIDE THE RACE, IN MY MOTHERFUCKING OPINION, ARE ON THE GOTDAMN COME UP. MOST OF THESE BLACK MEN DOG US THE FUCKKKKKKKKKK OUT. IF YOU FIND YOU A GOOD MAN WHO LOVES YOU AND SEE THE BEAUTY IN THE EBONY, THE MOCHA, THE CHOCOLATE UNDERTONES, RUN WITH THAT SHIT. Who the fuck are you to say that shit?!!!?!?!?!

I feel GENUINELY CONFUSED. Because apparently you must be a follower of mine and I really enjoy all my followers, or I try to at least. But you are a fucking moron. You had the unmitigated gall to make an account to harass this woman for some basic ass shit like dating outside of her race? I am so…..spent.

I can’t speak for my “husband” but please do me a favor and unfollow theeeeeee fuckkkkk out of me. I literally subscribe to NOTHING that you are saying and I don’t want any of my followers to think I do. 

This made me livid. I was married to a black man. I’m not dating a white man. I’m more compatible with the man I’m with now. I could give a fuck what color his skin is.

Fuck you anon, or not anon, you’re an ass hole and completely wrong.

Maybe black men just hate your dumb ass.

I can’t believe what I’m reading. 

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Posted: 9:37 AM
thelovelyify:

A new blog post is ready for youto read on me and my bf’s 3rd year anniversary! ❤️💕I can’t believe we made it this far but I am so thankful! Thanks for each and everyone of your support! You all remind us on a daily how lucky we are to be with each other and for that, we thank you. #ambw #ambwcouple #bwam #interracial #interracialcouple #love #bf #nigerian #chinese #naijagirl

thelovelyify:

A new blog post is ready for youto read on me and my bf’s 3rd year anniversary! ❤️💕I can’t believe we made it this far but I am so thankful! Thanks for each and everyone of your support! You all remind us on a daily how lucky we are to be with each other and for that, we thank you. #ambw #ambwcouple #bwam #interracial #interracialcouple #love #bf #nigerian #chinese #naijagirl

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Posted: 9:37 AM

purple-chubby:

Alex and I decided to try Boiling Crab for the first time and my dumb-ass decided it was a good idea to try lobster because we’ve never had it before TIP: DO NOT GET THE LOBSTER!! :’(. Since we came home all we do is eat (If I have one more In-N-Out I’m going to puke) and look for work.

Tomorrow we’re going to try a Poke place that my friends have been raving about so I’m pretty excited about that :D

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Posted: 9:37 AM

Anonymous said: I'm 17 & my mom said she doesn't want me to date outside of my race because the guys parents might not accept me. Did you meet your bf's parents yet? How did it go if you did?

ebonybyg:

That’s the thing with dating outside your race, you never know how the parents are going to react. I did meet them and his dad was really surprised but happy and nice. His mom was clearly not happy, I thought “Hey they just moved here so she’s probably gets how she feels about Black people from the media” so I tried to show her that the stereotypes weren’t true but she wasn’t taking it. I later talked to his dad about how the media portrays us and how that effects our lives and I guess he told her or something because she apologized. 

It’s a disgusting feeling to force yourself to be nice to someone who doesn’t like you for your race so if that ever happens I would talk about how society paints Black people and the effect of it, and if they still don’t like you for your race after that then they’re not worth giving respect to.

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28 July 14

Anonymous said: I went on vacation to Puerto Rico and I went into Walgreens then saw this really pretty black woman with her Asian boyfriend shopping together, they were such a beautiful couple. I thought of your blog right away after I saw them together, I love this blog a lot keep up the good work.

Awww thats awesome! I’m glad you like our blog, thanks for the submission! 

Posted: 4:06 PM

Anonymous said: Do you think most black women will make sure their Asian guy's culture will continue in their children? Because that doesn't seem to be the case. It seems that black style and culture typically dominates because it's more American and has more power in the U.S. so it always "wins" out. And the Asian culture disappears.

I don’t want to generalize all AMBW couples, but I think the issue is that the majority of Asian men who date interracially (AMBW or otherwise) are extremely Americanized. They may not be into their culture and don’t make passing on their culture as big of a deal. Either way, from what I’ve seen being apart of the AMBW community, and from the blasian people that I know personally, if the Asian guy is into his culture then the black mother will definitely make sure it carries on. 

I always advise the couples to learn about their partners culture, food, and language anyway, especially if their family is traditional. Most people   appreciate when there partner is into their culture, especially when children get involved. 

Are there any AMBW couples with children, or Blasians who would like to chime in on this?

Posted: 11:26 AM
taburton87:

Date night Friday! @ Kabutos Japanese Steakhouse! My fav!

taburton87:

Date night Friday! @ Kabutos Japanese Steakhouse! My fav!

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kevenandlexi:

Happy just being together 😍

kevenandlexi:

Happy just being together 😍

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Posted: 11:08 AM
dawson800:

Blury as all get out, but that me and my baby…. just got done cleaning or new house, being an adult is hard work

dawson800:

Blury as all get out, but that me and my baby…. just got done cleaning or new house, being an adult is hard work

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Posted: 11:08 AM
jheartsjae:

Jae and I grabbing some Mexican to celebrate our 2 years together ^_^

jheartsjae:

Jae and I grabbing some Mexican to celebrate our 2 years together ^_^

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Posted: 11:07 AM
kaylachung12:

We made a wish at the top of the Ferris wheel. 😊❤️🎡 #ferriswheel #statefair #fun #love #couple #makeawish #view #smile #ambw #california #smile #californiastatefair #nofilter

kaylachung12:

We made a wish at the top of the Ferris wheel. 😊❤️🎡
#ferriswheel #statefair #fun #love #couple #makeawish #view #smile #ambw #california #smile #californiastatefair #nofilter

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Posted: 11:07 AM
kaylachung12:

He didn’t kneel. 😂❤️💍 #fake #proposal #statefair #californiastatefair #exhibit #thatrandomoldwhiteman #ambw #onedaywewillgetthere #untilthen

kaylachung12:

He didn’t kneel. 😂❤️💍
#fake #proposal #statefair #californiastatefair #exhibit #thatrandomoldwhiteman #ambw #onedaywewillgetthere #untilthen

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Posted: 11:07 AM
fanny379:

Visit of Rome

fanny379:

Visit of Rome

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Themed by Hunson. Originally by Josh