I’ve never been questioned so much about my relationship, till I became a part of an ambw relationship.
I can take a few weird looks,or questions about what our parents think. I’ve been in a couple interracial relationships prior to this.
But the weird comments and questions never cease to astonish me .
today this guy was talking to me, twas normal conversation, mostly about where he adopted his puppy but then this happened:
me: I’m probably going to Trinidad next year to finish my degree so it makes no sense adopting. Probably after, when my boyfriend and I move in together (we plan on moving in together after we graduate).
best friend who was standing nearby: haha, now realised she’s taken?
him: I don’t believe you ( apparently my friend had lied to him previously about her relationship status when he asked for her number, now he has issues with trusting her, not that it bothers her)
me: *shows him my phone’s wall paper*
him: isn’t that a girl? (boyfriend’s hair is shoulder length in the picture)
me: *laughs* nooo, he just refuses to get a hair cut.( not that I mind, its gorgeous tbh)
him: wait, *grabs phone* Is he Chinese?
him: why are you with a Chinese?
me: he’s my best friend, he makes me happy, quite simple really(-_-‘).
him: but isn’t his dick like small?
me: *what the (O_o)*
him: seriously though, is it true?
me: * you have got to be kidding me* I’m not even going to entertain you with an answer. *turns away*
I would like to say that was the first and only time someone has asked or commented on the possible size of my man’s junk, but unfortunately (‘-_-).
Sometimes we get odd comments or questions from old people as well. Those are easier to brush off since they are from a different time so I don’t expect them to always understand.
Once, this old man on the side walk outside the store we were leaving stopped me to ask me if I could understand my boyfriend when he spoke.
I don’t think it was rude, he looked honestly confused. Most of the rude comments I receive come from guys who are around my own age.