To answer shirleymcloon's question, yes, there are asian women out there that are attracted to black women...my cousins are example! My cousin began dating an asian girl and they remained together for a very long time. Her asian girlfriend has a long history of dating black women because she was raised around black people and know and understand and appreciate our culture.
Unfortunately, they broke up, but race had nothing to do with it.
^_^ yay for blasian love. too bad they broke up though :(
Thanks for the follow back!^^ I like the message your blog sends to people--That we should be open-minded and tolerant. Race/ethnicity shouldn't matter in whomever we decide to date.* or just in general..I will stop before I start ranting on the issue.* Hope you won't mind my kpop spazzes and reblogs. ^__^
Couldn’t have said it better myself. Don’t worry if you ever want to rant on this topic the submit button is always here lol. No i don’t mind the kpop lol
seeing John Cho and Gabriel Union is sooo spicy yet romantic. I love him and ppl used to call me gabriel union because of my cheek bones (i dont see it lol ) but id give anything to be here after that lol
What movie is that from?
That’s actually not from a movie, its from a show called flash forward. Unfortunately, i think it got canceled. :( it really was a great show.
Why? Cus none of them would ever want me. Asking why again? Do I really have to say it? It’s because none of them would want a black girl. I’m right aren’t I? All I hear them talking about is how cute an Asian girl is and how perfect they are. I’m not hating on them. I KNOW they’re freakin’…
Honestly i think you should look at things from an Asian males perspective. Family is a very important part in Asian culture. You want to make them proud so you do what makes them happy even if it’s not what makes you happy. Older Asian parents sometimes don’t want their kids dating outside of their race because they believe the stereotypes and what the media tells them. Unfortunate, but that’s life. Being that you are 16, the guys in your age range are in their parents homes and under their influence. Sometimes even if they want to date outside their race they can’t. Parents may threaten to disown them, kick them out, or stop talking to them. When family is very important to you that’s the last thing you want. You hear them saying “I only date Asian girls” because if they are allowed to date ( if they CAN date). Honestly, “acting Asian” wont get you anywhere. The Asian men that I know who do like black girls think its a bit of a turn off when they are too into their culture. They feel as if they wanted an Asian girl then that’s who they would be with. I admire girls who take the time to learn about other cultures not the ones who completely surround themselves in another and forget about their own. Lastly, don’t think too much of it if you hear an Asian guy saying he only dates Asian girls. He does not speak for every Asian male. I honestly believe that some say this because they never thought about dating outside their race. That’s just my two cents. I don’t mean to offend anyone and If anyone did get offended I’m sorry its just my opinion <3
I just wanted to say you have such an amazing blog here, seriously, I'm so happy someone finally did it. I remember drawing an ambw couple a while ago, I think it'd be kinda cute here, I'll submit it if you don't mind :)
thank you so much and thank you for the submission. I liked it ^_^
The other day some one on your blogged asked where is a good place to find Asian men. Geographically… New York. Tons of Asian men that almost exclusively date black women. Also, Atlanta Georgia. A good place to start is in urban areas where Asian men would have more exposure to diversity, especially to black and/or hip-hop culture.
Coming from someone who has lived in NYC all their lives would have to disagree about the exclusive part. Yes finding an Asian man can be easier if you live in New York, but they most likely are not exclusive to black women. You have to remember that most Asian men in NYC live in predominately Asian neighborhoods so being exclusive to any race other than Asian is pretty unlikely. However, growing up in NYC means a lot of mixing so yeah there are plenty of Asian men who would date black women. Like I said before, I just think the thought has not crossed some of their minds.
You are spot on with the diversity comment. I think anyone who would be more open to other cultures, would be more likely to date people from that culture.
So far I’ve gotten nothing but support and I want to thank you guys for that. I want you guys to know that this is not just my blog its ours. So far i have posted all submissions and i hope you guys continue to send them in. Don’t be afraid, its nothing but love lol.
hey, i was wondering if you knew of any blogs that have hispanic girls with asian men...I am Mexican and dating a Korean guy, and there's not a lot to go by...
Btw, your blog is lovely. it opens eyes to rare interracial couple for those who believe it is not possible
Unfortunately i don’t, but you can always start your own. i would definitely promote it!
You have an interesting blog and I love it <3 This page kinda reminds me of my cousin cuz he is an asian man who marries a black woman and they both lived very happy together and they were blessed with 3 beautiful daugthers.
Thank you so much. Be sure to tell them about the blog. I’m looking for submissions :)