Hey!!! Its been a while since I’ve submitted to the site, but I have a quick question. Do you know of any followers who may live in the Oklahoma area? I would love to schedule a meetup but I have only seen other women that are interested in AMBW who are on any sites or anything. So I guess what I’m asking is, do you know any male Asian followers who live in the Oklahoma area????
No, unfortunately i don’t know of any. Honestly, most of my followers are women. If any of my male followers are from Oklahoma and would like to meet up, inbox me.
Have you ever organized/attended and AMBW meet-up? I was reading some of your answers and that sounds like a good idea but I wouldn't know where to start? What would you recommended? I know promotion on a forum or website would be good, have any tips?
Love your blog by the! beautiful couple~you&Bf!
I’ve attended a few AMBW meet-ups. There is a big one coming up in Maryland. I think bwamu2.ning.com is probably the best place for AMBW meet ups.
Idk it's so easy to say I'll make a move next time, but the thought of actually doing it is terrifying. I think I will though! (or at least try) And if I get rejected it'll be embarrassing for a little while, but like you said at least I wont be thinking about the what ifs, and the shoulda coulda's lol
No thank you for sharing. If you actually do approach someone then tell me how it works out. You might give hope to some of my followers.
To the girl in Houston (and other ppl out there), I know it seems like LA, or cali in general, is the 'place to go' to find a perspective Asian significant other but it's not even that. >You< have to be appealing to another person; it's not the place that suddenly make you a hot commodity, it's how you carry yourself and what you bring to the table (this can be said for any race ofc).
And specifically to the girl in Houston and other ppl in Houston: There are soooo many different Asian groups in Houston. There's the mini Korea town off of I-10, new Chinatown and Bellaire etc etc. There are too many ppl here to feel you need to pack up and move on west. There's premium gold here too. just saying lol
I live in New York City and people think this is the place for IR. Thats not the case when it comes to AMBW. Yes you do see AMBW couples but not as many as other interracial couples. If you guys feel as if there are not enough AMBW happening in Houston then make it happen. Start meetups, start interaction. No need to move, bring the action to you.
Sorry for the mini-spam but I totally agree with the anon about Africans and Asians. I am Nigerian-American and many of the things that she said are true. I find that I am looked down upon by people who just see me as a color than my mind and the sum of my experiences. Who ever made that statement please respond as publicly. I would love to follow and talk to you.
And Thanks again for being an amazing blog.
Its fine. I love getting questions and submissions from my followers. I want to follow that person also, so whomever you were please message me!
I really enjoy your blog. I followed it mostly because I was wondering if this pairing existed in real life. I come on here all the time and really like the pictures. Thanks for being completely honest and insightful.
Not only does it exist, but its spreading! lol
Thank you for following and showing love, i really appreciate it.
To the Nigerian anonymous woman. I must agree with the author in telling you that you should create your own blog. I'm an African-American woman and while you can find something with people of any background, I must concur that Africans and Asians have more in common that we're lead to believe and I love how you went in depth of why it will. If society will start looking at people as human beings instead stereotypes, they will understand what love is.
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Hi, I just wanted to say I was the one who wrote the story about seeing the guy in the mall and not saying anything. It was kind of embarrassing writing it so I went anon. But I liked your responses, so I just thought I'd thank you as me and not some anon. So thank you! And yeah a lot of what ifs right now, and a bunch of wishes on 11:11 :/
This made me smile, I’m so glad you decided not to be an anon. Do you think next time you will have the courage to approach someone you are interested in?
I just finish reading your anonymous response towards Nigerian and Asian. Well I agree him or her because my step father is Nigerian and my bio father is Filipino and Dominican. My mom is African American.I think it does't matter what color or ethicnity. I dated a Japanese and Korean guy we live in America people are to judge no matter what. The thing they don't travel the world to see a different side of this universe.
Is there a way to approach Asian guys when you like them? I'm shy and I kno most Asian guys are too, but I just don't know how to talk to them:/
Asian guys are just like any other guys, there is not need to approach them differently. Wouldn’t you want an Asian guy to approach you the same way he approaches Asian girls? Try taking the fact that a guy is Asian out of your head. Approach him as you would approach any other guy. Him being Asian shouldn’t be on your mind at all.
In response to the person who didn't approach him. In my personal opinion, the British Accent was the superawesomebonus that could have started a conversation could have asked him about it, even if its completely obvious that he's from the UK.
I suggest people ask obvious questions (not obvious enough to look stupid) but just the ones that could have more information given than you thought.
I’m sorry, i think she said he had everything aside from the accent. That would be a great conversation starter though.
Because I'm way too shy when it comes to guys :/ Especially really cute guys... I hope I see him again somewhere, it's a 1 in a million chance, but crazier things have happened. I wouldn't approach him, but I'd smile and wave or something.
You may have just missed out on someone special. I think you should try to approach him, whats the worst that could happen? Rejection is not easy, but now you are thinking what if, and that can’t be any easier.
ok so what i dont get that people say the reason bwam relation do not work out is because the couplings are from two different worlds but that is the least true if u look at it from my prespective. i mean there are women who came from africe(like nigeria, niger, libya) who like asian men and why well i feel that it is because they have so much in common. many asians are respective, responsible and care deeply about honor and well in my country(nigeria) it is the same. there is no tolerance of disrespect towards any elders u kneel and bow to them when u see them even a t public places. in every family every one has to take responsiblities mainly the oldest of all i mean my mom hates the thought of her doing dishes and me just sitting watching tv no everyone takes a part each and everyone. my dad holds a respectable prospective in my country and is hseen as a great man so he feels honor is an important thing because of how people view him he feels that none of his children should ever get tattoo or multiple piercings because his people would look down on him. and besides all of this like asians we are verrry hard working, dedicated to education and strict. i am not allowed to hang with friends more than twice a week when i get b's on my report cards my dad is very upset because like others he felt that here is an opporutnity to be in america take it so we work hard we start school at the age of two and begin learning a third language at the age of 5 and enter college by 16 that why many nigerians who come to this country suceed i mean parents send their kids back home to straighten them out and i swear it works almost to well. like i said previously we are hard working and my dad came from nothing really and worked hard to get to were he is now and gave it up for an oppurtunity for us to come to america like many asians do. so personally i feel the culture we can relate to the most are the asians and it kills me to feel that some asians view us as low people due to sterotype which are not true. many asian arents are trying to find people who understand what they are coming from and the importance of respect and honor and basically dismiss the ideas of black female because of the media i mean they do not act as bad towards white girls(no offense to anyone). but i feel if they would take the time to study the culture they would realize they are more alike than any other cultures and i feel if asian boys took girls like what i have described home the parents would not be as objective. i also feel that some black women/girls dont even know what kpop is they are just looking for some onw who knows what it's like to be respected smart and have great expections from families. thank you for your time. i love ur blog.
First off, i want to say thank you for taking the time to write this post. This is probably the longest response I’ve gotten so far, which is a good thing.
You are absolutely right. It sounds like Asians and Nigerians do have a lot in common. It’s just lack of knowledge about the traditions of African people that separates us. Often black people are seen as having no culture at all, which is not true. It shows how much stereotypes and the media play a role into our way of thinking. If you do not know a Nigerian person at all, then people might not know any of the things you just stated.
I am glad you informed me, and my followers on this. Thank you so much for your input, if you have anything else you want to add you are always welcome to.
I wish you were not an anon. In would have loved to follow your blog if I am not already following it.
how do you feel abotu that asian male scientist who made a whole report on how black women are the least attractive of all women ..that kinda pissed me off
well not kinda
IT PISSED ME OFF and then i thought of this blog
It pissed me off too. I hope this didn’t discourage some black women, not all Asian males are as much of an idiot as him. I am hearing that Psychology Today issued and apology, is that true?
*sigh* this isn't a question, but I just wanted to share this with you. Today I hung out at the mall with my friends, and I saw this really hot asian guy. We kept making eye contact with each other, but neither of us made a move. Now I'll probably never see him again, and he was so hot! He fit everything on my list aside from a british accent lol.
I want to jump through this screen and shake you lol. Why didn’t you approach him?
Did you know that the girl you just posted in the pink-purple dress sitting on the couch with the Asian man, is actually not black? Haha, its Zoe Saldana. She's hispanic. Dominican and Puerto Rican :) But its still awesome.
:( Wow i didn’t realize. I think i will take it down and submit it to the Asian male Latina female blog i was told about yesterday. Thanks for telling me!!
Hey! I just discovered this site about .002 seconds ago, and I already love it. It gives me faith that men and women are coming together because of the love they share, despite their race. Now if you look on my
Blog you'll see that I love kpop immensely, but don't judge me too quickly. My very first best friend was Korean, and we were 6 years old. I (being the language guru that I am) fell in love with listening to her mother speak Korean with her silky soft voice. Plus all of the exotic (for me) Korean dishes dazzled my tastebuds :) I've loved the Korean culture pretty much my whole life, and said best friend introduced me to kpop just when shinee debuted in 2008. I caught the kpop virus and have been infected since then, and I love the shinee members for their goofy and gentle personalities ^^
Realistically speaking, I know I'll never marry any of the shinee members, and I'm perfectly ok with that! I like them because they display the characteristics that I would love in a boyfriend, regardless of race. Even though for some strange reason I'm incredibly attracted to Asians, I'm always open and ready for any color of the vast rainbow :)
In conclusion (lol sorry) I just wanted to tell you that I love this blog and can't wait to see more of it.
Sorry for that novella. End rant XD
lmao its cool. I like that you are so realistic and open minded, we need more of that. Thank you for your support, I like when my followers take the time to talk to me.
Yesterday, after my cousin’s graduation, I spotted a AMBW couple eating lunch seated at a table at the outer eating area of McDonalds on my way back from Dunkin’ Donuts .
This was a shocker for me because it was here . In Lawrenceville Ga !
& I live in the suburbs of Atlanta, Georgia :D
hey, once again, I want to say how much i like this blog, and the people who are now having an open mind to interracial dating.
I've only started a blog dedicated to asian men and latina women couple (http://asianmenlatinawomen.tumblr.com/) If you could promote it, I'd really appreciate it!
thank you so much. There is also another blog similar to yours
Let’s just start out by saying I’ve never dated a fully Asian guy. I did date a guy that was half though. If you know me at all, you know I’m very attracted to Asian guys. And all of the Asian guys I’ve been involved with never led to a relationship. One of them, it was clear he liked me. We never…