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This blog was created because of the lack of diversity on other interracial blogs. We wanted to see couples who looked like us. Sure some of the couples had similar experiences, but it just wasn’t the same. We wanted to talk about our experiences as a couple, and talk to other couples. We wanted to encourage interaction between Asian men and Black women, so that hopefully more AMBW couples can be formed. We wanted to break down stereotypes, dismiss fetishization, give advice, and show that AMBW couples are around, and we are just like any other couple.

AMBW is one of the least common interracial pairings. With the negative stereotypes about us, and our coupling RARELY being shown in the media, most people have never seen an Asian male/Black female couple, let alone couples happily married and starting families. We are hopeful that this blog has opened up a few minds, and hearts, and maybe even helped a few people get together.

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7 August 12

Chibi & David

How did you two meet and when did you guys offically become a couple?

Through a mutual friend, we became a couple May 10, 2011

How did you deal with being in a long distance relationship? Do you feel that it has made your relationship stronger? 

We skyped a lot and spoke on the phone EVERYDAY (literally), yes it definately has because we value each others presence more than the average couple for sure

What made you decide to move in together? Was it a hard decision? 

Just the fact that we were madly in love and couldn’t deal with being apart any longer, and no the decision was quite simple.

What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for each other? 

Chibi- The first time david came out to Maryland to see me

David-  Just us spending time together

What do your parents (both sets) think about your relationship?

David- My parents are slowly (very slowly) coming around

Chibi- My dad is coming around, once he knew how serious David felt about me.

What features are you most attracted to when it comes to your Bf/Gf?

Chibi- David has a lot of features that I truly love about him such as his humor, consideration, his huge amount of respect for me, and definitely his sincerity

David-Chibi’s features that I adore are her cheekbones, personality, and quite frankly, I love everything about her. 

One thing most AMBW couples have in common is that they feel like they get stared at quite frequently, do you guys feel the same? 

David doesn’t really care and its nothing new to him… I’m not the first black women he’s been with… but for me bugs me because I hate disrespectful and ignorant people

Have you ever received any offensive comments about you two as an interracial couple? If so, what was your reaction? 

Chibi-Yes of course… especially from black men ALL THE TIME and OG Asian folks, David brushes it off, but me… I’m more verbal, if you know what i mean. 

Do you have any advice for those seeking an AMBW relationship? 

Chibi- We are human so don’t go in with stupid fetishes and stupid stereotypes and go in it without holding back.

David- Just build up confidence and its what you make it. Just always be true and go in with your eyes open. 


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