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Hi! I’ve been watching this blog for quite some time now, and I think this blog has taken great strides in opening the minds of other black women who were probably too uncertain to approach Asian men. My boyfriend (he’s 29, I’m 26) was actually an online pen-pal friend who I was getting acquainted with via email. I found out he lived about an hour from me and that he’d been living in the US for quite some time working. After a couple of weeks we exchanged photos, but I noticed a shift in his attention, but being my silly, oblivious self I thought nothing of it. He was sooo cute in every way, actively playing sports, etc. but I didn’t think I’d stand a chance so I quickly gave up the idea thinking “Oh, I’m probably not his type anyway… he probably likes white girls… we’re just friends!” lol shortly after we exchanged numbers, started texting often, and when we discovered other things we liked (Studio Ghibli movies), he asked me out the blue one day to go see the last one in production during Spring Break (Wind Rises).
Fast forward to our first meeting, we ended up having dinner at a habachi grill and despite having the nosiest group of mofos ever sitting near us trying to ruin everything, he kept talking to me, focusing on me, made me laugh (he teased me because I watch VS ARASHI a lot. Only God can judge MEEE! LOL). I couldn’t stop being so surprised by him, it was delightful, and new for me… haha I completely let my guard down whenever he smiled at me. He was a perfect gentleman. At the end of the night he hugged me like he really meant it, and I knew then and there I couldn’t just leave him alone.
When we finally went to see the movie a few days after, we get in the theater and absolutely NO ONE is there. (DESTINY! lol) I could tell he wanted to do something like put his arm around me and I think he aborted when I started to look his way once (lmfao), but I was still unsure if it was all in my head. EVEN though we were doing things like sharing the same drink… (haha I’m sooooo slow, I KNOW THIS) An hour in I just… let my head fall on his shoulder. We took one good look at each other, he held my hand and kissed me. The rest is history! We’ve only been together a month now but he’s truly been the best thing to happen to me this year. Maybe this can help someone out there to get the push they need to talk to a certain someone they’ve had their eye on. Just go for it! (*´ω｀*)ノ~❤
I was studying for a final and I was tweeting about the material I was going over and he started replying to the tweets I was making about gender inequality and some other sociology material. I knew who he was, but not really. I knew he went to my college, but I’d only met him once in person and it was months before that twitter convo. He text me the next day for lunch and I really wasn’t tryna go b/c I was comfy in bed watching HULU but I looked through his pics b/c i didn’t remember what he looked like and (how shallow of me i know) but I was all for it when I saw he was cute. He picked me up for lunch and we just so happen to be wearing the same color sweater, he smelled good and he was just way too charming. I thought we were going to eat lunch at the student union but he took me off campus to go eat and we ended up going to a few other places and stayed out all night. He made me laugh a lot and i found out he was just as weird as I was. hahaha. Longest lunch date ever, but totally worth it.