Anonymous asked: I have been to the women4rice chat site but they seem like a closed group. I've also been ignored by this asian guy for no reason. Everything was fine before his business trip so maybe I'm just being paranoid. He is Japanese and they tend to ignore people when they're busy but I'm beginning to feel like a relationship or friendship with asian men is becoming more difficult. Should I just keep trying? It's getting kind of disheartening.
Everyone usually seems very cliquish when you first join chatrooms, but you have to remember, they’re not doing it on purpose. They’re just used to interacting with the same people all the time, so they may have certain jokes and topics you don’t get. I’d try to be a little more outgoing than normal, and go out of my way to join in the conversation and interact. Usually with tinychat, if you come on cam, people are more likely to talk with you.
I would keep trying with this guy, and try to be understanding, but not to the point where it makes you feel bad about yourself. If you feel like you’re putting to much effort into him, then maybe its time to let him loose. There are PLENTY of Asian men out there, not just in these groups. Maybe once he seeing you’re not interested anymore, he’ll start noticing you. Some guys just like girls who play hard to get.
Anonymous asked: So im dating this Asian guy for over 9 months. Only thing is his cuzin is my bff and he doesn't want me to tell her about us. So i barely hang wit her. IDk, how to tell him that im really hurt by this! Any advice would help!
Suck it up and tell him that hiding your relationship from his cousin makes you uncomfortable. If you guys plan on being together, it WILL come out. Your friend is already going to be hurt that you’ve hidden it for nine months, why hurt her more? Having good communication and being honest is the key to a long lasting relationship. If he cares about you, he shouldn’t allow you to neglect a good friend for him.
You should check out italki.com Its a website where you friends people from all around the world for language exchange. There are a lot of Chinese but you can find all types of Asians Its good just to make friends and learn about culture. Anyone can join. Hope this helps!
Anonymous asked: I like black girls but everytime I point out a cute black girl to my friends they always make negative remarks. They have disgusted looks on their faces and say that black girls have bad attitudes and smelly p*ssies and they make fun of me for liking smelly p*ssies. It’s so frustrating cause I like black girls and want to and try to defend them. What can I say or do to change their thoughts?
Your friends are jerks. They don’t have to like or agree with your dating choices, but I think they should at least respect it. Don’t allow them to see you getting upset about it. Once they see that it isn’t bothering you and you don’t really care what they think, I’m sure they’ll stop.
Solution- date a Black girl 10x hotter than all of their girlfriends and watch them drool. Problem solved. :)
Anonymous asked: I'm 18 years young AA and I'm very interested in Asian men. There is only one problem there isn't any asians that attend my college. When I watch ambw videos on utube who talk about finding their husband online or wherever makes me feel a bit like I'm just wasting my time. For me I feel like I'm being desperate watching these and hoping & waiting on my asain man to come my way but no. I'm not sure wht to do Give up on my love for Asians or wht. I don't like joining sites or anything. Any advice?
Not to be rude, but you can’t just sit on your ass hoping that someone will come and find you. Most Asian guys don’t think Black women like them, for most the possibility hasn’t even crossed their minds.
The main purpose of these sites is to encourage interaction between people who may have never interacted otherwise. Don’t see joining a group or site as being desperate, its just expanding your dating pool.
To be honest, when you say you have a “love for Asians”, it can come off desperate. You shouldn’t love Asians, you should love whom ever you’re in a relationship with, if he’s Black, Asian, or green with purple stripes.
itsgabrielleinwonderlandbitches asked: I love your blog! i'm 16 and i'm really attracted to Asian guys and my dad is half Chinese and Jamaican & my family knows that i like Asian guys and they're okay with it and my brother also likes Asian girls too but my friends at school make fun of me because of it, they think Asian guys are ugly and i always feel bad inside a little.
Brush it off and date who you want. If they’re really your friends, and care about you then they’ll respect your decision. A few of my friends couldn’t understand why I liked Black girls at first, but they eventually got over it. Now that they see how happy my girlfriend makes me, they understand.