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So I’ve been following you for… maybe a little over a year. Not for anything more than I think I follow just about every quality, submission-based, interracial relationship blog that’s out there. Hahaha. I just love seeing swirled couples!
Anyway, all that to say… I met a guy the other day. And we really hit it off. And he’s really sweet and a great conversationalist and just seems so genuinely interested, when we talk… And I think I went ahead and got the biggest crush on him. To the point of where I, after three hours had passed from our initial conversation, tracked him back to the library to ask him if he’d want to do coffee sometime. He was enthusiastic and gave me his number. That was Thursday. I called him today to confirm our coffee chat and he said he’d be available this coming Thursday.
I AM SO NERVOUS. I have some friends whom I pointed him out to and they were like “Oh, it’s because you were dressed pretty ‘Asian’ that day, that’s why he talked to you”. Which really shattered my confidence because I don’t really have a style-guide… and now I’m finding myself trying to dress as preppy/Asian as possible.
But that seems silly. I feel like I’m overthinking it. But I can’t help it! He’s so kind and well-mannered, and well-traveled, and we had so much to talk about. And even though I believe myself to be older by maybe two years… his maturity level was right on par. He was even humble enough to ask me the difference between certain business sectors (since we apparently, at one point, shared a major)… and he was constantly interjecting little compliments (“I can’t see you having a problem attracting people”, “Did you learn German from your German boyfriend at one time?”, “You are the kind of person it would be hard to forget”.) YIKES.
So with each passing day… I’m getting myself more and more flustered. I think, in order to have our coffee date on Thursday, I’m going to have to write stuff down!! Just so I don’t lose my head! Hahaha, but I wanted to dump that here because, well… I’m a black west indian girl and he’s an Chinese/European boy…
Phew. I don’t know if I want advice or support or just a thumbs up. But man, that felt good to write!!
Thank you for your blog. xx <3
Lol this submission was so cute. I think don’t think you need too much encouragement, judging by the compliments and good conversation, it seems like you’ve got this in the bag. Just please don’t let your friend’s comments get to you. Think about it this way- He probably doesn’t care how you dress as long as you look nice (most guys don’t). Even if he does, do you really want to get to know someone who is shallow enough to judge you because you don’t dress “Asian” enough? Thats silly. If he only wanted an Asian girl, he probably would’ve made an excuse to not go out for coffee with you.
Relax, go on the date, and let the conversation flow naturally. The chemistry is there, you have nothing to worry about.
Anonymous asked: hi my name is Heaven! how are you guys!? you guys are a cute couple! i dont have a tumblr so please contact me on facebook my name is heaven atsbeha and how did you guys met and where is it?
Thanks, is there a reason you want us to contact you?
I first saw her on BWAMU, a mutual friend gave me her Facebook, after talking there we met at an AMBW BBQ in NYC.