kahina-imani asked: I sincerely love this blog! I've always been into Asian guys and like alot of others on here, my friends would tell me that they're not attractive and I'm crazy. Fuck them, I know what I like, and this blog is too cute for words. So, thank you for making it! Lol
You made me smile. Thank you, and fuck their opinions lol
Anonymous asked: So im dating this Asian guy for over 9 months. Only thing is his cuzin is my bff and he doesn't want me to tell her about us. So i barely hang wit her. IDk, how to tell him that im really hurt by this! Any advice would help!
Suck it up and tell him that hiding your relationship from his cousin makes you uncomfortable. If you guys plan on being together, it WILL come out. Your friend is already going to be hurt that you’ve hidden it for nine months, why hurt her more? Having good communication and being honest is the key to a long lasting relationship. If he cares about you, he shouldn’t allow you to neglect a good friend for him.
You should check out italki.com Its a website where you friends people from all around the world for language exchange. There are a lot of Chinese but you can find all types of Asians Its good just to make friends and learn about culture. Anyone can join. Hope this helps!
Anonymous asked: I like black girls but everytime I point out a cute black girl to my friends they always make negative remarks. They have disgusted looks on their faces and say that black girls have bad attitudes and smelly p*ssies and they make fun of me for liking smelly p*ssies. It’s so frustrating cause I like black girls and want to and try to defend them. What can I say or do to change their thoughts?
Your friends are jerks. They don’t have to like or agree with your dating choices, but I think they should at least respect it. Don’t allow them to see you getting upset about it. Once they see that it isn’t bothering you and you don’t really care what they think, I’m sure they’ll stop.
Solution- date a Black girl 10x hotter than all of their girlfriends and watch them drool. Problem solved. :)
Anonymous asked: To the girl with the boyfriend bring up race issue. Maybe he never imagine a black woman would date him? A lot of Asian guys have issues with self esteem because of the stereotype with Asian men with small penis. Talk to him first before you do anything. He might need time to get it through that race doesn't have anything to do with your relationship(I hope not). -Random Asian Guy
After three months of being together, I would think that he already realized that race has nothing to do with their relationship.
Anonymous asked: Hello. First, I would like to say I love your blog. It gives me a bit of hope because I am Black and currently studying Japanese. (not for the men persay, I just really like the language) I also have a tiny crush on a Japanese guy from Twitter but that's a different story. Anyway, I was wondering if you know of any sites besides bwamu that would be good to meet asian guys. I got suspended sadly for being inactive for so long. Thank you!
You can try making another account on BWAMU, and actually become active this time. Join the women for rice chatroom on Tinychat. Or look for a couple of AMBW groups on Facebook. If there is a meetup group in your area, then I’d join that as well.
tashimabarzey asked: People really ask odd questions. AMBW. I didn't know what it was at first so I went to your page and Googled it. So I would assume that other people would do so. Humans are strane. Do they think you are an alien in space just using tumblr for the heck of it????? REALLY. (Are you black/Asian) the name should say it all. Okay I have ranted enough. I like that you have somewhere for people to come and feel comfortable, have fun, and see others like themselves. :)
Some people do ask really odd questions, but we don’t mind answering them. Submit your crazy questions!!
Lol I think they are just surprised that this blog is ran by an AMBW couple because the majority are ran by Black women. Thank you, we’re glad you like it!
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