Anonymous asked: This is a more general question than AMBW related but what do you think of long distance relationships? Do you think they can really work? (Sorry if I sent more than once)
It takes a ton of trust, communication, dedication, and creativity :) but, long distance definitely can work. When you really love someone, it doesn’t matter how much distance are between you two, they’re always in your heart.
Wow that was cheesy.
There are a few long distance AMBW couples that follow our blog, they should definitely share their stories!!
Anonymous asked: Wow, there are more AMBW couples that I thought, thanks for making this blog. ^~^ I LOVE Asian boys <3
This blog is just a very small portion. Imagine how many more couples are out there. Thanks for the support.
Anonymous asked: I have been to the women4rice chat site but they seem like a closed group. I've also been ignored by this asian guy for no reason. Everything was fine before his business trip so maybe I'm just being paranoid. He is Japanese and they tend to ignore people when they're busy but I'm beginning to feel like a relationship or friendship with asian men is becoming more difficult. Should I just keep trying? It's getting kind of disheartening.
Everyone usually seems very cliquish when you first join chatrooms, but you have to remember, they’re not doing it on purpose. They’re just used to interacting with the same people all the time, so they may have certain jokes and topics you don’t get. I’d try to be a little more outgoing than normal, and go out of my way to join in the conversation and interact. Usually with tinychat, if you come on cam, people are more likely to talk with you.
I would keep trying with this guy, and try to be understanding, but not to the point where it makes you feel bad about yourself. If you feel like you’re putting to much effort into him, then maybe its time to let him loose. There are PLENTY of Asian men out there, not just in these groups. Maybe once he seeing you’re not interested anymore, he’ll start noticing you. Some guys just like girls who play hard to get.
itsgabrielleinwonderlandbitches asked: I love your blog! i'm 16 and i'm really attracted to Asian guys and my dad is half Chinese and Jamaican & my family knows that i like Asian guys and they're okay with it and my brother also likes Asian girls too but my friends at school make fun of me because of it, they think Asian guys are ugly and i always feel bad inside a little.
Brush it off and date who you want. If they’re really your friends, and care about you then they’ll respect your decision. A few of my friends couldn’t understand why I liked Black girls at first, but they eventually got over it. Now that they see how happy my girlfriend makes me, they understand.
—There is a journalism student by the name of Vesko Cholakov from Northwestern University in Chicago conducting interviews concerning the large gap(s) in certain Interracial Marriages/Pairings (I believe most of these interviews will be done by phone):
“Do you want to be interviewed for a major story on the gap in interracial marriages?
In America there’s a wide gender gap in interracial marriages – for example, many more more black men marry Asian women, than Asian men marry black women; more Asian women marry white men, than white women marry Asian men, etc. I’m a journalism student at Northwestern University in Chicago and am working on a big magazine story about the gender gap in interracial marriages. I’m interested to figure out why you think this is the case. If you would like to share your perspective, please shoot me a quick message as soon as possible, cholakovv@u.northwestern.edu”
Anonymous asked: your like the only blog for ambw out there i hope out never stop ...love the blog
There are actually a couple of AMBW blogs out there, but don’t worry we wont stop blogging. Thanks so much for the support!!
