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Farhia & Jason’s Wedding

Farhia & Jason

Farhia & Jason

Anonymous asked: Wow, there are more AMBW couples that I thought, thanks for making this blog. ^~^ I LOVE Asian boys <3

This blog is just a very small portion. Imagine how many more couples are out there. Thanks for the support. 

Anonymous asked: I have been to the women4rice chat site but they seem like a closed group. I've also been ignored by this asian guy for no reason. Everything was fine before his business trip so maybe I'm just being paranoid. He is Japanese and they tend to ignore people when they're busy but I'm beginning to feel like a relationship or friendship with asian men is becoming more difficult. Should I just keep trying? It's getting kind of disheartening.

Everyone usually seems very cliquish when you first join chatrooms, but you have to remember, they’re not doing it on purpose. They’re just used to interacting with the same people all the time, so they may have certain jokes and topics you don’t get. I’d try to be a little more outgoing than normal, and go out of my way to join in the conversation and interact. Usually with tinychat, if you come on cam, people are more likely to talk with you. 

I would keep trying with this guy, and try to be understanding, but not to the point where it makes you feel bad about yourself. If you feel like you’re putting to much effort into him, then maybe its time to let him loose. There are PLENTY of Asian men out there, not just in these groups. Maybe once he seeing you’re not interested anymore, he’ll start noticing you. Some guys just like girls who play hard to get. 

Anonymous asked: So im dating this Asian guy for over 9 months. Only thing is his cuzin is my bff and he doesn't want me to tell her about us. So i barely hang wit her. IDk, how to tell him that im really hurt by this! Any advice would help!

Suck it up and tell him that hiding your relationship from his cousin makes you uncomfortable. If you guys plan on being together, it WILL come out.  Your friend is already going to be hurt that you’ve hidden it for nine months, why hurt her more? Having good communication and being honest is the key to a long lasting relationship. If he cares about you, he shouldn’t allow you to neglect a good friend for him. 

Interracial Marriage/Pairing Disparities Interviews needed ASAP!!!

—There is a journalism student by the name of Vesko Cholakov from Northwestern University in Chicago conducting interviews concerning the large gap(s) in certain Interracial Marriages/Pairings (I believe most of these interviews will be done by phone):

“Do you want to be interviewed for a major story on the gap in interracial marriages?
In America there’s a wide gender gap in interracial marriages – for example, many more more black men marry Asian women, than Asian men marry black women; more Asian women marry white men, than white women marry Asian men, etc. I’m a journalism student at Northwestern University in Chicago and am working on a big magazine story about the gender gap in interracial marriages. I’m interested to figure out why you think this is the case. If you would like to share your perspective, please shoot me a quick message as soon as possible, cholakovv@u.northwestern.edu”