Anonymous asked: I have been to the women4rice chat site but they seem like a closed group. I've also been ignored by this asian guy for no reason. Everything was fine before his business trip so maybe I'm just being paranoid. He is Japanese and they tend to ignore people when they're busy but I'm beginning to feel like a relationship or friendship with asian men is becoming more difficult. Should I just keep trying? It's getting kind of disheartening.
Everyone usually seems very cliquish when you first join chatrooms, but you have to remember, they’re not doing it on purpose. They’re just used to interacting with the same people all the time, so they may have certain jokes and topics you don’t get. I’d try to be a little more outgoing than normal, and go out of my way to join in the conversation and interact. Usually with tinychat, if you come on cam, people are more likely to talk with you.
I would keep trying with this guy, and try to be understanding, but not to the point where it makes you feel bad about yourself. If you feel like you’re putting to much effort into him, then maybe its time to let him loose. There are PLENTY of Asian men out there, not just in these groups. Maybe once he seeing you’re not interested anymore, he’ll start noticing you. Some guys just like girls who play hard to get.
Anonymous asked: My Friend is really irking me.. She thinks that I'm weird for crushing on Asian guys because they hve "small d*cks" and she has a lot of people teasing me saying I like "Asian d*ck" Its really annoying and I dont know why she does this. She likes white guys so whats her problem?(by the way she's Asian but really Americanized and I'm Filipino and Black) what should I fo?
To be honest, it sounds like she may be a bit envious. She doesn’t date Asian men, why does she care that you do? Just because she doesn’t date them, does she think no one else is supposed to date them either? I don’t think anyone should disrespect their race because they choose to date someone outside of it. Tell her to either respect your dating choices as you do hers, and if she can’t then she can hit the road. Friends are easy to make and you shouldn’t have to deal with her negative attitude.
People will only tease you if you keep showing that you’re bothered by it. Yes you date Asian guys, so fucking what? Don’t let that bother you. You’ll always run into criticism when you date interracially, especially if your coupling is rare. Date who you want to date, fuck what anyone else thinks.
lunalesca asked: hello my name is jasmine i seem to have gotten a few questions about my bfs race cause he "doesnt look asain" his dad is japanese and his mom is polish and native. any advice ?
You don’t have to explain this to anyone if you don’t want to. If someone thinks you’re not telling the truth about him, then thats fine. His mix should not be a big deal, and it really isnt any of their business anyway.
If you insist on answering them, then you can make a FAQ or tell people his and your ethnicity when you post photos.